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How to Take Your Love Deeper

Ephesians 5:1-2

Uploaded to YouTube September 30, 2026

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Plenty of couples sit on the same couch every night and live on different planets. If you want to strengthen your relationship, start with the person right next to you. The world says spread your love wide, and God says take it deep with the people closest to you. You do that by walking toward them on purpose every day, the way Christ walked toward us and gave himself up for us. In this sermon, Pastor Kaloma Smith of UAMEZ Church in Palo Alto, California preaches on Ephesians 5:1-2 to married couples, partners and single people and gives four steps to a deeper love: study your partner, stay when it's easier to scroll, speak tender words and surrender daily. Questions this sermon answers How do you strengthen your relationship? Walk toward your partner on purpose through small daily deposits, like asking questions you don't already know the answer to. How do you keep a relationship strong? Keep studying the person you love for life, the way 1 Peter 3:7 calls husbands to live with their wives with understanding. What is good relationship advice for couples? Stay when it's easier to scroll: for the first 20 minutes after you reunite each day, put the phone face down somewhere else. How do you strengthen your relationship with Jesus? Receive the love Christ already showed you, because this kind of love comes from him and grows as you reflect it to others. If you're single, every step still applies to the people God has placed closest to you. Scripture: Ephesians 5:1-2, 25-31; 1 Peter 3:7; Matthew 26:40; Ephesians 4:32 Chapters 0:00 Prayer for relationships 0:35 The dream behind the love 3:04 Going deep instead of wide 4:18 What it means to walk in love 10:23 Four steps to strengthen your relationship 21:11 The hardest step: surrender 30:43 Where this love comes from Join us Sundays at 10 AM PT, 3549 Middlefield Rd, Palo Alto, CA 94306, or live at youtube.com/@uamez Plan your visit: uamez.com Instagram: instagram.com/uamezchurch Facebook: facebook.com/uamezchurch #UAMEZChurch #RelationshipAdvice #Ephesians5

Questions this sermon answers

How do you strengthen your relationship?

Walk toward your partner on purpose through small daily deposits, like asking questions you don't already know the answer to.

How do you keep a relationship strong?

Keep studying the person you love for life, the way 1 Peter 3:7 calls husbands to live with their wives with understanding.

What is good relationship advice for couples?

Stay when it's easier to scroll: for the first 20 minutes after you reunite each day, put the phone face down somewhere else.

How do you strengthen your relationship with Jesus?

Receive the love Christ already showed you, because this kind of love comes from him and grows as you reflect it to others.

What are the chapters in this sermon?

  1. 0:00 Prayer for relationships
  2. 0:35 The dream behind the love
  3. 3:04 Going deep instead of wide
  4. 4:18 What it means to walk in love
  5. 10:23 Four steps to strengthen your relationship
  6. 21:11 The hardest step: surrender
  7. 30:43 Where this love comes from

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